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According to Ruth La Ferla  of the New York Times

“The profusion of hothouse colors and patterns popping up on New York streets this month suggests a new buoyancy, as women shake off the constraints of a lingering recession and stock up on fashions more lively and vivid than they’ve seen in years.”

Good, and about time. I have no idea why navy and black are such popular colors. Like every other fat woman I know that my edges blur in dark colors, that I can merge with the background and loose a few pounds in visual illusion, and yes there are times when I have, but really is it worth it when the fabulous, exuberant joy of color is there to lift you mood, your day and everything around you? I often wonder how many women use color and aromatherapy in their lives, but stick to boring dark, dull clothes.

The effect of colorful clothes can be startling. Like wearing a jacket in a meeting (it gives you authority – try it if you don’t believe me) some colors have instant effect on those around you. Want to be seen as feminine? Wear pastels, pale pink is best, but lilac and aqua are almost as good. If you want attention – red is easy, suits almost everyone and will grab you every eye in the room. Why does it work? Usually because everyone else is too chicken to wear it.

Blue is a peaceful color – strange given it’s use in military uniforms and green is a way to say ‘I’m different’ combined with whatever version of different you’re looking for. The most interesting colors – the non colors like cream, gray, fawn, beige and taupe can make you look mousy and insignificant or fabulously rich – it’s all down to how you wear them, and what you wear them with. A good outfit uses two colors, a great outfit uses three,  Clowns use more.

But what about the bedroom. Is there a color code there? Nightgowns and robes have more scope that you might imagine from viewing most collections. A great outfit uses three colors. This is fine if you can add a scarf, shoes and a handbag to your basic outfit, but in the bedroom these accessories are just a little out of place.

The best way to get color into your nightwear is to look for prints rather than the cliched  plain colors often available. Silk is a fabulous fabric which dyes beautifully, and hand painted silks are available in a kaleidoscope of colors – there is simply no reason to feel restricted to only one.  Softest cotton is also available in beautiful delicate prints, in both cotton pajamas and a cotton nightgown designed to life your spirits.

So don’t settle for boring – challenge yourself and the fashion industry to give us the colors we need to feel good, to lift our spirits and be ourselves.  Out with the old – in with the new!  Color is king.

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Style AND substance, our hand painted silk robe, ideal for Spring

Silk is the most romantic fiber in the world. Used for wedding and evening dresses as well as high end nightgowns and lingerie, silk is highly prized, but did you know that techniques of silk manufacture were at one time regarded as state secrets? To find out more about silk and it’s unique history, read on.

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I was planning to get my husband a briefcase for his birthday, then this landed on my desk. Dynamic Creations are making custom briefcases; apparently a man needs a briefcase to match his car. I suppose this is a reward for serial infidelity. First, there was me, then there was the car, then when I had almost come to terms with that, there was the laptop. Made from carbon fibre these custom briefcases are individually designed to match your car in design, color and interior. Only the best materials are used (of course) Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t say I really feel like forking out around $15000 so my husband can have a sandwich box to match his car.   The designer says that the price may come down once the product goes into general production, but once everyone can have one, what’s the point?

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Long sleeved silk nightgown

Is it cold where you are? I can’t believe I’m in Florida. We’ve had some really cold nights recently and this morning I woke up really cold and don’t seem to be able to get warm again. Of course cold is a relative term. Coming from Scotland, I’m well aware that what passes for a disastrously cold day in Florida isn’t much to talk about in terms of cold, no snow for a start. No digging out the car, no skating on the path. Yes, despite my present luxurious circumstances as I blog from pool side, I  once struggled with snow rain and freezing fog, and I suppose in a way, that’s why I’m here. I really don’t like the cold.

There is also the amazing leg of doom. Have I told you about my leg? I don’t want to go into details but it’s not a pretty sight, and as someone pointed out to me the other day, may well be the reason we concentrated on full length nightgowns for quite a while. Anyway the amazing leg of doom doesn’t like the cold either. It aches, a lot, which brings me back to today. Sitting here I am bathed in glorious sunshine, which is great, but still cold. Its the same silly situation you can see in this picture of what we call internally, the ‘Sound of Musicnightgown. But look again. What do you see? Long sleeves. A full skirt. What could this mean? You guessed it. This nightgown, like many nightgowns we make, is made from a type of silk, but the great thing about it is that it is warm, warm, warm!

Please don’t rush all at once. I want to get my order into the workroom before you. I’m fed up f being cold. It may not be really cold here in Florida, but it certainly feels like it because our heating isn’t as good as yours. I need a warm nightgown, and come to think of it, a nice warm robe wouldn’t go down too badly either. How about you?

To know more about the nightgown just click on the picture!

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We’ve been here in the USA now for almost 18 months and finally have our own home. It’s been a big step, the house buying process is quite different to what we’re used to. We completed the purchase and were surprised to have to ask for the keys to our new abode. We were even more surprised when the closing agent said they didn’t have them. Surely we didn’t want to move in immediately? Like many things in the USA, I just don’t ‘get’ the house buying process. Having agreed to  a closing date, why wouldn’t I want to move in? All ended well as our home was new and the builders were able to let us in, but I still think the whole thing was handled in an extraordinarily incompetent manner, but maybe real estate isnt important in the USA?

So we have a home and have had to come to understand the concept of the Home Owners Association. For those not familiar with the notion the HOA is a bunch of people who are allowed to dictate to you what you can do with your own property. This is a concept so foreign to us (British) that we can’t even imagine coping with it. Our new ambition is to own another home far far away from a home owners association. You think I’m over-reacting? You need to get permission to put up a fence, and it has to be one of an approved kind.  That’s actually not too bad, some of the houses we looked at came with Home Owners Associations manuals that were several inches thick and even specififed exactly what type of plant you were allowed to have in your garden. The land of the free? No. At least not here in Florida.

Which for no reason at all that I can think of brings me to interior decoration. One of the great joys of the USA is the huge variety of home decor available at fairly reasonable prices. For years we have enjoyed purchasing museum quality replicas of ancient carvings and statues, these are the ornaments which decorate our home. We have a particularly lovely copy of an ornamented bull which we bought in Crete and a really good copy of the rosetta stone (though sadly a lot smaller than the original) as well as several bits and pieces picked up in our travels around the Mediterranean.  So far we have not ventured into Eastern culture for our home, however the discovery of more than one stunning buddha statue from BigBuddhaStatue.com may change all that. Take a look at their buddha statue video and see what you think. I have a balcony which is just crying out for some bamboo, a Japanese fountain and a Buddha statue, ideal to give me a sense of tranquility when dealing with the complete madness all around.

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Style AND substance, our hand painted silk robe, ideal for Spring

I went to see Avatar last week. Did you really? Yes I did. It was nosiness . I had to see what all the fuss was about. And you know what? It was amazing. The more hype there is about something, the more I seem to feel it should be avoided, but if you’ve done something amazing, and trust me Avatar is amazing, isn’t it OK to shout about it?

Avatar is a 3D film which features a fantastic world where rocks float in the sky (and yet gravity keeps the inhabitants firmly on the ground) the nighttime forest looks like the inside of a trendy nightclub, and the little green men with ray guns are actually big blue aliens who like trees and successfully repel futuristic armoured vehicles with bows and arrows.  No, I am not oversimplifying.

The truth is that Avatar’s story doesnt hold up to scrutiny and some of the inconsistencies are annoying, even while you are watching. The special effects, while mind-blowingingly clever are SO mind-blowingly clever that they cross the invisible wall. For the first time in a long time of watching hollywood science fiction I found myself thinking ‘These effects are really good’ That’s bad. I much prefer the occasions when I simply don’t think of the special effects at all, either because they are very real, or because the story is moving along at such a pace I don’t have time to think about them.

So, if you haven’t, go and see Avatar. It is a very pretty film and the 3D  and other visual effects are very very clever, but don’t expect a great or absorbing story, because there isn’t one.

Most especially don’t confuse clever with good, and don’t confuse appearance with substance. This morning I read a blog from a woman praising the pledge her son took when going to pre-school. He made a commitment to excellence in everything he did. Sounds good. Sounds very good, but how many pre-school children know what commitment or excellence mean? And how many parents want them to?  Isn’t it enough for our toddlers just to have fun? Full marks for appearance, zero for substance.

Which brings me back to nightgowns. Do you want to know how clever we are when we design them? Do you want to know all the steps we take in creating a new design, testing the fabric, wearing the garment, before we add it to our web site? Of course not. That’s just us shouting that we’re really clever  at what we do. You want to know what the garments will do for you, that it will feel fabulous against your skin, that the color will faltter your eyes and your hair, that the style will fit well and comfortably flattering you best features, and most of all that it will make you feel absolutely fabulous in a way that only garments that have been made especially for you can.

So go and see Avatar, and try not to get too upset about how good it could have been if it worried a little more about substance and a little less about appearances.

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Anyone who reads this blog regularly will know that in the past few weeks I lost a friend.  Another friend of mine was busy talking about all the things she had meant to acheive, but now that she has arthritis, it seems unlikely she will be able to travel (which had been her goal for retirement). So when I gave a talk the other day and a lady told me she loved all our Certain Style designs, but couldnt buy one until she lost weight, I

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wondered, was she making an excuse to be polite, or was she really putting off something she wanted to do, something she could do, for a silly reason?

Ive done lots of silly things in life. things that werent really sensible, things that involved risk, things that were expensive, but somehow I suspect that when I am about to die, if I get time to think it through, it will the things I haven‘t done I regret.

This is not about nightgowns. This is about life. How many things do we put off  ‘until we lose weight’ ‘until we get a bigger house’, ‘until we get a better job’. My mother has been waiting, as she puts it, for her ‘ship to come in’ for at least 30 years. I hate to tell her that I think it came in years ago, unloaded, picked up new cargo and set sail once again, only she didn’t notice.

If we assume that many of the people who tell us that us that we are fat and lazy, and undermine our self image are doing it for the best, and not merely to keep the diet industry earning, then they are still guilty. They are asking  us to put life on hold, to waste precious days.  Why should we? It’s not yet a crime to be fat. If people don’t find you pleasing to they eye, it is their loss. Every person should celebrate themselves every day. We have to fight those people who want us to be less than we are, because we have a great deal to give, and we don’t need to wait until we lose weight to do it.

Don’t put things off. If you really want to do something, make a plan, set a goal. Whether it’s buying a nightgown or climbing Everest, go for it.

If not now, when?

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Tomorrow I’m going to do something I should really enjoy, and that’s give a talk. I like talking, primarily as a result of ebing overly fond, as my grandmother said, of the sound of my own voice. Fortunately most people seem to find me easy and informative to listen to, so usually it’s a win win situation. But not tomorrow.

Usually when I’m talking it’s an aspect of business, and particularly business on the internet that I’m discussing, but tomorrow I’m talking about fashion, and in particular about wardrobe building and fit. Why is this a problem I hear you ask? Well because somewhere in the audience, and I’ve done this several time so I must ask you to believe me, there will be a lovely lady wearing something that neither suits nor fits, and I will be spending the whole time trying hard NOT to look at her.

For some reason my audiences for these things seem to include a lot of plus size ladies. That could be because plus size is really stupidly defined, or it could be that some people think made to measure is something only plus size people need (really? Yes, some people are that daft) and as we know, there is nothing worse than plus size clothing when it comes to fit and design. Yes, there are some great designers, but the majority? Who on earth decided that horizontal patterns, like border prints, were good for plus size women? No, in case you’re wondering I’m not talking about the size 12′s which have been so recently ‘discovered’ by the media (oh my, they may be fat but some of them are almost human) I’m talking about real women with some meat on their bones.

So tomorrow, I apologise in advance to the poor lady who is going to feel victimized by what I’m saying. If only I could make the people who sold her those ill-fitting clothes, feel as bad as they should, the it would ‘all be worth while’.

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I went to order a gift for a friend the other day and was really surprised at the cost. The reason? His birthday is the 14th of February, and I had forgotten about Valentines day. Apparently the world is so short of certain items around the middle of February that the prices just HAVE to go up. Really? I had the pleasure of working with a lovely lady who owned a Florists in Cookham, one of those picture book villages dotted around Berkshire in England. She worked very hard at Valentines, often having to go through the night to be sure all her orders were ready for the next day, so perhaps she was justified in charging a little more, but when I try to order red silk for nightgowns and am told that red is ‘more expensive at this time of year’ I begin to feel that the price has gone up not because it must, but because it can. Valentines has  got to a point where surely the necessity of giving removes most of the romance.

So this year, I’m concentrating on the rest of the year. Everyone needs more romance in their lives, but not just in February.

What we are doing this year:

Prices for nightgowns will be the same for Valentines as they are the rest of the year.

All profits from the sale of our valentines nightgowns in January will be donated to Doctors Without Borders in honor of the victims of the Haiti Earthquake.

What we are doing from now on: Profits from all red and pink nightgowns sold in January every year will be donated to Charity.

Every 10th of the month we will have a special offer to help you celebrate an ‘unvalentines’ day at any time of the year.

We will introduce our own range of romance cards – designed to say ‘I love you’ to her or to him, at any time of year.

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Sherlock Holmes, The Movie posterWhat a surprise! Yesterday we went to see the film Sherlock Holmes.  I wanted to see it, but I was expecting to find it ludicrous. Conan Doyle’s famous consulting detective in bare knuckle fights? Mycroft‘s brother doing martial arts?  Any fan of the books (or even the previous films) would find it strange at the very least.

Instead I found a really enjoyable film with a Sherlock Holmes who was, though different in many ways from the detective we all know, believable.  Odd, impossibly talented, occasionally dark and strangely vulnerable, whatever you’ve heard, this new Sherlock Holmes is not  Iron Man with a bad English accent. This Sherlock Holmes is new and different, but somehow still the same, and maybe even better, in his own way.

So today when I sat down to look at our next collection of nightgowns, I found myself looking more at the robes. We all know about robes. They have shawl collars, belted waists and they look, to quote my grandmother, like bags tied in the middle. There’s really nothing more to say. But maybe, like the creators of this new Sherlock Holmes, we can take another look and create which is the same, traditional useful, comforting garment, but with a new and different twist. Watch this space!

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