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Long sleeved silk nightgown

Is it cold where you are? I can’t believe I’m in Florida. We’ve had some really cold nights recently and this morning I woke up really cold and don’t seem to be able to get warm again. Of course cold is a relative term. Coming from Scotland, I’m well aware that what passes for a disastrously cold day in Florida isn’t much to talk about in terms of cold, no snow for a start. No digging out the car, no skating on the path. Yes, despite my present luxurious circumstances as I blog from pool side, I  once struggled with snow rain and freezing fog, and I suppose in a way, that’s why I’m here. I really don’t like the cold.

There is also the amazing leg of doom. Have I told you about my leg? I don’t want to go into details but it’s not a pretty sight, and as someone pointed out to me the other day, may well be the reason we concentrated on full length nightgowns for quite a while. Anyway the amazing leg of doom doesn’t like the cold either. It aches, a lot, which brings me back to today. Sitting here I am bathed in glorious sunshine, which is great, but still cold. Its the same silly situation you can see in this picture of what we call internally, the ‘Sound of Musicnightgown. But look again. What do you see? Long sleeves. A full skirt. What could this mean? You guessed it. This nightgown, like many nightgowns we make, is made from a type of silk, but the great thing about it is that it is warm, warm, warm!

Please don’t rush all at once. I want to get my order into the workroom before you. I’m fed up f being cold. It may not be really cold here in Florida, but it certainly feels like it because our heating isn’t as good as yours. I need a warm nightgown, and come to think of it, a nice warm robe wouldn’t go down too badly either. How about you?

To know more about the nightgown just click on the picture!

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We’ve been here in the USA now for almost 18 months and finally have our own home. It’s been a big step, the house buying process is quite different to what we’re used to. We completed the purchase and were surprised to have to ask for the keys to our new abode. We were even more surprised when the closing agent said they didn’t have them. Surely we didn’t want to move in immediately? Like many things in the USA, I just don’t ‘get’ the house buying process. Having agreed to  a closing date, why wouldn’t I want to move in? All ended well as our home was new and the builders were able to let us in, but I still think the whole thing was handled in an extraordinarily incompetent manner, but maybe real estate isnt important in the USA?

So we have a home and have had to come to understand the concept of the Home Owners Association. For those not familiar with the notion the HOA is a bunch of people who are allowed to dictate to you what you can do with your own property. This is a concept so foreign to us (British) that we can’t even imagine coping with it. Our new ambition is to own another home far far away from a home owners association. You think I’m over-reacting? You need to get permission to put up a fence, and it has to be one of an approved kind.  That’s actually not too bad, some of the houses we looked at came with Home Owners Associations manuals that were several inches thick and even specififed exactly what type of plant you were allowed to have in your garden. The land of the free? No. At least not here in Florida.

Which for no reason at all that I can think of brings me to interior decoration. One of the great joys of the USA is the huge variety of home decor available at fairly reasonable prices. For years we have enjoyed purchasing museum quality replicas of ancient carvings and statues, these are the ornaments which decorate our home. We have a particularly lovely copy of an ornamented bull which we bought in Crete and a really good copy of the rosetta stone (though sadly a lot smaller than the original) as well as several bits and pieces picked up in our travels around the Mediterranean.  So far we have not ventured into Eastern culture for our home, however the discovery of more than one stunning buddha statue from BigBuddhaStatue.com may change all that. Take a look at their buddha statue video and see what you think. I have a balcony which is just crying out for some bamboo, a Japanese fountain and a Buddha statue, ideal to give me a sense of tranquility when dealing with the complete madness all around.

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Bridal Robe by Certain Style

It’s spring again and time for bridal season. You might imagine that at Certain Style we’d be wading in white chiffon and lace from the little wisps of nothing ordered by brides. Actually, no. We love brides and are happy to make whatever they want, but recently Bridal nightgowns and robes have become a lot more interesting.

Even weddings are affected by the state of the economy. While brides may spend a fortune on their wedding gown and wear it only once, their bridal nightgown is a different story. The nighttime ensemble a bride chooses for her honeymoon can be worn many times. It can easily be a more lasting memento of the wedding than the dress itself, if chosen well.

For most brides the whole of the wedding day is the realization of a fantasy, so why not use sleepwear to extend the romantic fantasy of a wedding to cover the honeymoon and beyond?  Actually it’s quite difficult to do. When you talk about ‘fantasy’ and nightwear in the same sentence, it all seems to be about men.  Fantasy nightgown? No. Think fantasy costume, french maids, schoolgirls etc.   Now there’s nothing wrong with indulging male fantasy (which is usually what it is) but what about female fantasy? Sadly many brides choose honeymoon nightgowns that end up stuffed at the back of a drawer, usually because their owners feel embarrassed or uncomfortable when wearing them. But there’s no need.

Where sex is power, romance is vulnerability. The ideal marriage is of course a mixture of both; interestingly we find that it’s the second time brides who come to us looking for a romantic nightgown, but this could well be because second time brides are often a little older, and as a result more in touch with themselves. As one lady put it to me the other day, ‘Feeling romantic is

Empire Style silk nightgown, designed for a bride and inspired by the Empress Josephine.

what makes me feel really sexy’.   We’ve been asked for is a regency style nightgown for a bride who had found her Mr Darcy, and a fur trimmed robe for a fan of Anna Karenina.  Many tall women long for the romance of a full length nightgown as those in the shops only reach mid-calf. Despite our best efforts, we’ve not been able to distill romance into a single nightgown design, but then, would we want to?

What is the ideal bridal nightgown? It’s all to do with the way you want to feel. If your romantic fantasy is very ‘Gone With The Wind’, look for a nightgown and robe in the great Gothic style, Scarlet really new how to wear a robe! If you are more tended to ‘Pride and Prejudice‘ something in silk with a high waist and small cap sleeves will give you that ‘waiting for Mr Darcy’ feeling, and if Gothic romance is your thing, a full length, handkerchief linen chemise with a deep neckline, long sleeves and lavish lace trim should do the job admirably. Brocade, trimmed with frills and lace can be very regal depending on the style, while silk velvet cut with wide medieval sleeves and a beautiful trim will make you feel like a character in the ‘Lord of The Rings’ . The fantasy really doesn’t have to stop with the dress and you’ll wear the nightgown and robe far more often!

I love my job because every garment we make is unique, just like the woman who eventually wears it. Keeping romance alive is a major part of making a marriage successful. I can’t think of many things more important that that.

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Style AND substance, our hand painted silk robe, ideal for Spring

I went to see Avatar last week. Did you really? Yes I did. It was nosiness . I had to see what all the fuss was about. And you know what? It was amazing. The more hype there is about something, the more I seem to feel it should be avoided, but if you’ve done something amazing, and trust me Avatar is amazing, isn’t it OK to shout about it?

Avatar is a 3D film which features a fantastic world where rocks float in the sky (and yet gravity keeps the inhabitants firmly on the ground) the nighttime forest looks like the inside of a trendy nightclub, and the little green men with ray guns are actually big blue aliens who like trees and successfully repel futuristic armoured vehicles with bows and arrows.  No, I am not oversimplifying.

The truth is that Avatar’s story doesnt hold up to scrutiny and some of the inconsistencies are annoying, even while you are watching. The special effects, while mind-blowingingly clever are SO mind-blowingly clever that they cross the invisible wall. For the first time in a long time of watching hollywood science fiction I found myself thinking ‘These effects are really good’ That’s bad. I much prefer the occasions when I simply don’t think of the special effects at all, either because they are very real, or because the story is moving along at such a pace I don’t have time to think about them.

So, if you haven’t, go and see Avatar. It is a very pretty film and the 3D  and other visual effects are very very clever, but don’t expect a great or absorbing story, because there isn’t one.

Most especially don’t confuse clever with good, and don’t confuse appearance with substance. This morning I read a blog from a woman praising the pledge her son took when going to pre-school. He made a commitment to excellence in everything he did. Sounds good. Sounds very good, but how many pre-school children know what commitment or excellence mean? And how many parents want them to?  Isn’t it enough for our toddlers just to have fun? Full marks for appearance, zero for substance.

Which brings me back to nightgowns. Do you want to know how clever we are when we design them? Do you want to know all the steps we take in creating a new design, testing the fabric, wearing the garment, before we add it to our web site? Of course not. That’s just us shouting that we’re really clever  at what we do. You want to know what the garments will do for you, that it will feel fabulous against your skin, that the color will faltter your eyes and your hair, that the style will fit well and comfortably flattering you best features, and most of all that it will make you feel absolutely fabulous in a way that only garments that have been made especially for you can.

So go and see Avatar, and try not to get too upset about how good it could have been if it worried a little more about substance and a little less about appearances.

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Anyone who reads this blog regularly will know that in the past few weeks I lost a friend.  Another friend of mine was busy talking about all the things she had meant to acheive, but now that she has arthritis, it seems unlikely she will be able to travel (which had been her goal for retirement). So when I gave a talk the other day and a lady told me she loved all our Certain Style designs, but couldnt buy one until she lost weight, I

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wondered, was she making an excuse to be polite, or was she really putting off something she wanted to do, something she could do, for a silly reason?

Ive done lots of silly things in life. things that werent really sensible, things that involved risk, things that were expensive, but somehow I suspect that when I am about to die, if I get time to think it through, it will the things I haven‘t done I regret.

This is not about nightgowns. This is about life. How many things do we put off  ‘until we lose weight’ ‘until we get a bigger house’, ‘until we get a better job’. My mother has been waiting, as she puts it, for her ‘ship to come in’ for at least 30 years. I hate to tell her that I think it came in years ago, unloaded, picked up new cargo and set sail once again, only she didn’t notice.

If we assume that many of the people who tell us that us that we are fat and lazy, and undermine our self image are doing it for the best, and not merely to keep the diet industry earning, then they are still guilty. They are asking  us to put life on hold, to waste precious days.  Why should we? It’s not yet a crime to be fat. If people don’t find you pleasing to they eye, it is their loss. Every person should celebrate themselves every day. We have to fight those people who want us to be less than we are, because we have a great deal to give, and we don’t need to wait until we lose weight to do it.

Don’t put things off. If you really want to do something, make a plan, set a goal. Whether it’s buying a nightgown or climbing Everest, go for it.

If not now, when?

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Tomorrow I’m going to do something I should really enjoy, and that’s give a talk. I like talking, primarily as a result of ebing overly fond, as my grandmother said, of the sound of my own voice. Fortunately most people seem to find me easy and informative to listen to, so usually it’s a win win situation. But not tomorrow.

Usually when I’m talking it’s an aspect of business, and particularly business on the internet that I’m discussing, but tomorrow I’m talking about fashion, and in particular about wardrobe building and fit. Why is this a problem I hear you ask? Well because somewhere in the audience, and I’ve done this several time so I must ask you to believe me, there will be a lovely lady wearing something that neither suits nor fits, and I will be spending the whole time trying hard NOT to look at her.

For some reason my audiences for these things seem to include a lot of plus size ladies. That could be because plus size is really stupidly defined, or it could be that some people think made to measure is something only plus size people need (really? Yes, some people are that daft) and as we know, there is nothing worse than plus size clothing when it comes to fit and design. Yes, there are some great designers, but the majority? Who on earth decided that horizontal patterns, like border prints, were good for plus size women? No, in case you’re wondering I’m not talking about the size 12′s which have been so recently ‘discovered’ by the media (oh my, they may be fat but some of them are almost human) I’m talking about real women with some meat on their bones.

So tomorrow, I apologise in advance to the poor lady who is going to feel victimized by what I’m saying. If only I could make the people who sold her those ill-fitting clothes, feel as bad as they should, the it would ‘all be worth while’.

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I went to order a gift for a friend the other day and was really surprised at the cost. The reason? His birthday is the 14th of February, and I had forgotten about Valentines day. Apparently the world is so short of certain items around the middle of February that the prices just HAVE to go up. Really? I had the pleasure of working with a lovely lady who owned a Florists in Cookham, one of those picture book villages dotted around Berkshire in England. She worked very hard at Valentines, often having to go through the night to be sure all her orders were ready for the next day, so perhaps she was justified in charging a little more, but when I try to order red silk for nightgowns and am told that red is ‘more expensive at this time of year’ I begin to feel that the price has gone up not because it must, but because it can. Valentines has  got to a point where surely the necessity of giving removes most of the romance.

So this year, I’m concentrating on the rest of the year. Everyone needs more romance in their lives, but not just in February.

What we are doing this year:

Prices for nightgowns will be the same for Valentines as they are the rest of the year.

All profits from the sale of our valentines nightgowns in January will be donated to Doctors Without Borders in honor of the victims of the Haiti Earthquake.

What we are doing from now on: Profits from all red and pink nightgowns sold in January every year will be donated to Charity.

Every 10th of the month we will have a special offer to help you celebrate an ‘unvalentines’ day at any time of the year.

We will introduce our own range of romance cards – designed to say ‘I love you’ to her or to him, at any time of year.

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Sherlock Holmes, The Movie posterWhat a surprise! Yesterday we went to see the film Sherlock Holmes.  I wanted to see it, but I was expecting to find it ludicrous. Conan Doyle’s famous consulting detective in bare knuckle fights? Mycroft‘s brother doing martial arts?  Any fan of the books (or even the previous films) would find it strange at the very least.

Instead I found a really enjoyable film with a Sherlock Holmes who was, though different in many ways from the detective we all know, believable.  Odd, impossibly talented, occasionally dark and strangely vulnerable, whatever you’ve heard, this new Sherlock Holmes is not  Iron Man with a bad English accent. This Sherlock Holmes is new and different, but somehow still the same, and maybe even better, in his own way.

So today when I sat down to look at our next collection of nightgowns, I found myself looking more at the robes. We all know about robes. They have shawl collars, belted waists and they look, to quote my grandmother, like bags tied in the middle. There’s really nothing more to say. But maybe, like the creators of this new Sherlock Holmes, we can take another look and create which is the same, traditional useful, comforting garment, but with a new and different twist. Watch this space!

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A friend of mine died on Friday. As far as we know it wasn’t a painful death, or a  traumatic death, but it was a sudden death.

That people matter far more than any THING ever could, is a lesson we learn repeatedly, and often painfully.

This company, Certain Style, is all about things. Things we want, but generally don’t need. My hope and belief is that these things, in themselves quite valueless, make people feel good, and that, at least is worth something. It’s not that taking pleasure in beautiful things is wrong, it’s just a question of priorities.

Right now there are people out there who have much bigger problems than which nightgown to wear.

So from now until the end of January, in memory of my friend, Certain Style will be donating 100% of our profits from the sale of Valentines day nightgowns to charities supporting the relief of Haiti following the devastating earthquake.

Valentines day is a purely commercial celebration, prices are often hiked especially and gifts given because, well because otherwise they are expected. This is no reason to give a gift, and it is most definitely not a reason to give a gift that celebrates love. Therefore from now on, every year, we will donate 100% of our profits from the sale of Valentines nightgowns etc to charity. If we’re going to celebrate love, let’s do it by spreading the love around, from those who expect it, to those who need it.

These are our 2010 Valentines nightgowns

Moonlit Merlot

Valentine

Camisole and bloomer style pants

Moonlit Merlot nightgown

Sweet Dreams

Pele

Our donation will be going to Doctors Without Borders (Medicin Sans Frontiers) as we like the fact that they publish their financial information on their website and we can where the money will go; to the people who need it.

You can support us by buying a nightgown, or by just making a donation direct.

The best things in life aren’t things, they’re people.

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Do you ski? It’s so cold outside I almost wish I did, then I’d have a reason to enjoy the weather, but having been brought up in Scotland I don’t find myself desperate to go out in the snow, just happy to be able to avoid shoveling it. I have too many memories of having to help dig the car out in order to get to school in the morning an occasionally having to wade thigh deep in the stuff dressed only in tights and ankle boots because our school uniform code said girls were forbidden to wear trousers. How did they get away with stuff like that? (Apparently trousers were ‘unfeminine’ unlike ties, which were of course a normal part of female attire in the early seventies. :-)

Anyway, I digress. If I were going ski-ing then here’s a new expensive toy to ski with.  Bentley ahs partnered with Swiss firm ZAI to create a ‘supersports’ set of handmade ski’s – a limited edition of only 250 pairs. They are made from carbon fibre with a natural rubber core and at $9,800 for a pair are the most expensive skis available. (see the top pair, pictured)

So, there you have it. Cosy and warm by the fire in your nightgown and fur trimmed robe, or out adventuring on the peaks in your Bentley Skis? What I love about it is the fact that it makes the nightgown and robe option look so economical!

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